FW2, high BP and aatcul pre-eclampsia with first and third sons were what took me to the hospital--not in the middle of the birth, but about two weeks before the due date in each case. No doubt I needed the hospital!zb, you make an important point: you had a role in making choices about what happened to you during your children's births. I think birthing centers with midwives, MDs, etc., can be a happy medium for many, many people.Christine...our home birth was our only complication-free birth (kind of an "of course" there). Our maternal mortality rates aren't very good, either, and are worse for some ethnic groups than others. I think women do need to be nurtured, but they also need to assert themselves, which, as you know, can be difficult given how many of us are reared.ranch101...I love birth stories like these. Good Lord. And what is this birthing nirvana you inhabited at the time? I'd've loved to have someone at least hold up a sheet over the door of our hospital room for our first birth. It's unnerving to look up in the middle of a push and see some strange, middle-aged regular citizen staring at your...you-know-what...and likely seeing your child's head before you do.